Tea for one with some of my treasures: my Marimekko teapot, my Le Creuset honeypot, and the handmade mug from Japan given to me by @oneleafy! #augustbreak2014


Tea for one with some of my treasures: my Marimekko teapot, my Le Creuset honeypot, and the handmade mug from Japan given to me by Alan’s cousin’s wife, Kaz!

Week Wrap-Up // Link Round-Up // Jun 28 – Jul 5

looking at the sky through the leaves of an oak tree

Alan turned in his dissertation one week ago, and wow, what a lovely week this has been.  We had the greatest dinner & a movie at home date ever last Friday night.  Alan was home both Saturday and Sunday, and he didn’t do any school work either day!!  He went for a few long runs, worked on his long-neglected novel, and took lots of naps.

Monday we hosted a casual dinner party for our Small Group.  I made Albanian qofte (meatballs), which was a hit. I also took advantage of my Amazon prime membership to order the workbooks for our next study and ship them for free to everyone in the group!

We had another picnic of Korean food in the cemetery on Wednesday.  After we ate, we laid on the blanket and looked at the leaves, and I took the picture seen above.

We celebrated the Fourth of July with lots of dogs and babies.

I also have tentatively started walking again.  I stretch my heel out for a few minutes before I leave, and several minutes after I get back.  I’m limiting my walks to between 10 and 15 minutes.  It’s not much, but I’ll take it!

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Cottage on the 4th of July

My grandma owns a cottage on Cayuga Lake, which is one of the Finger Lakes in New York.  My childhood summers are filled with fond memories of swimming in the lake, canoeing, fishing, and bonfires.

We got together with my grandma, my parents, my sister, my brother & sister-in-law and niece, my two cousins, their wives and children at the cottage to celebrate the Fourth.  Here are some photos:

installing a brand new boat lift


slowing making their way to the end of the dock


boat lift + boat!


first time in a kayak


a little confused about the concept of a water bottle


bright bathing suit & bright ball


grilling up lunch


lunch got rained out, so we picnicked inside


indoor playtime


outdoor playtime




there were 14 grown-ups, 4 kids, and 3 dogs




Happy Fourth!



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mailing a very special birthday card for a very special sister

mailing a very special birthday card for a very special sister


I walked to the mailbox to send this letter.  It was something of a test-walk.  I injured my Achilles tendon standing on the bathtub ledge prying down plaster and lath.  I’ve had to take a break from daily walks, and I’m eager to get started again.  But my heel still hurts.  So I walked the extensive 7:04 minute round-trip to the mailbox, and when I got back my heel was killing me.  Ugh.  I’m going to try taping it next–I miss the serenity of early morning walks!

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Thanksgiving 2012


On Wednesday Alan and I went to our friend Kate’s (same Kate who hosted my birthday party) for an early Thanksgiving.  It was lots of fun.  We finished the pie, and finally looked at the clock, shocked that four hours had passed.  I figure that’s a sign of a good party.

Thursday we went to my Aunt Debbie’s for Thanksgiving proper.

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Week Wrap-Up // Link Round-Up // Nov 17-23

Happy Thanksgiving weekend!  I hope you at lots of turkey yesterday (and maybe some pumpkin pie), and are still a little sleepy from it.  I am skipping out on Black Friday–it’s just not my thing.

My sister is in town from Boston, and tomorrow we’re going to get pedicures.  It’s crunch time at school, and I’m looking forward to a little rest and relaxation.

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the other side

One week ago I was on the subway in Buffalo, headed for day two of the Bar Exam.  My days were long:

5:45-wake up

6:10-drive to Buffalo

7:20-arrive at UB South Campus, walk to subway station

7:30-catch train downtown

7:55-arrive downtown, stand in line at the convention center

8:35-finally get to the door, go through security

8:45-get to my seat

9:00-start the morning session of the exam


1:45-start the afternoon session of the exam

4:45-travel home the same way: subway, drive

6:15-finally arrive home

The exam was grueling.  Monday was the New York day: 5 essays from a possible 20 subject areas (most essays test more than one area), 50 multiple choice questions highlighting New York distinctions from the common law, and one Multistate Performance Test.  The MPT is legal practice question.  You are given an assignment by a fictitious senior attorney along with some facts (affidavits, police reports) and law (statutes, precedent cases), and you must complete the task according to the law given, not your own knowledge.

Tuesday was the Multistate Bar Examination, which is given in almost every state* and covers the common law in six subjects: 1. constitutional law, 2. criminal law and procedure, 3. contracts, 4. torts, 5. real property, and 6. evidence.  It is a 200 question multiple choice test with 100 questions in the morning and 100 in the afternoon.  Each question is a short fact pattern (1-5 paragraphs) followed by a legal question.  The answers are almost always split into two “yes, because—” and two “no, because—” answers.  So you not only need to know which way the law goes, but why.  In practicing for the bar I would [too] often get the right answer but for the wrong reason, which is still wrong :/

Here is an example of an MBE question**:

Five years ago, a residential parcel of land was conveyed by warranty deed to a man and a woman “as joint tenants with right of survivorship.” The language of the deed was sufficient to create a common law joint tenancy with right of survivorship, which is unmodified by statute. The deed was promptly and properly recorded.

Three years ago, the man and the woman married each other. Last year, they divorced. The final divorce decree did not contain a specific provision concerning the legal title to the land. Subsequently, the man died intestate, leaving his nephew as his sole heir.

Who owns the land?

(A) The woman alone, because of the divorce.

(B) The woman alone, because she survived the man.

(C) The woman and the nephew, because of the doctrine of estoppel by deed.

(D) The woman and the nephew, because unmarried individuals cannot hold title as joint tenants with right of survivorship.

I had practiced hundreds of MBE questions, but rarely worked through 200 in a day, so I was pretty exhausted by the end of the second day.  Around question 172 I was having a hard time concentrating.  The last 28 questions felt as hard as the first 100!
Thursday I slept in until 11:00, and then promptly got sick.  I wasn’t surprised—that sort of rigorous activity tends to lower my immune system, and I’m vulnerable to even the weakest germs.  But by Thursday night I was keeping food down and feeling better, but still tired.
Friday I slept in, but only until 9:30.  Then I helped Alan get some last minute camping supplies, and dropped him off to go camping with some guys from church in the Adirondacks for the weekend.
photo credit: Joshua Hoiland
While Alan was roughing it, I joined my parents at my grandmother’s cottage on Cayuga Lake in the Finger Lakes region of New York.  It was a quiet, relaxing weekend, which I so needed.My sister-in-law is at the cottage now, with my four month old niece.  I was hoping Alan and I could drive down for a day this week, but it doesn’t look like we’re going to be able to.  Alan’s preparing for a conference that will be held at the University of Rochester in a few weeks.  He has to complete his work soon, because we’re headed to Utah next week to visit his parents and do some hiking!

It’s weird to be on the other side of the bar.  Law school was such a big “thing,” and it seems unreal that it’s just over.  When people congratulated me on graduating from law school, I told them all the same thing: graduating from law school is the most anti-climactic thing ever.  As soon as you graduate, you start studying for this huge exam.  If you can’t pass the bar exam, graduating from law school doesn’t mean much.***

So now I feel the weight of having graduated from law school AND taken the bar exam.  It’s pretty cool.****

*except Louisiana, which is based on a civil law system, and Washington state

**The answer is (B).  This is a fairly simple question: you have to know that joint tenancies include “survivorship,” which means that if one joint tenant dies, his share in the property goes to the other owner(s), not to his heirs.  The stuff about marriage and divorce are just distracters.

***There are jobs for people with law degrees who haven’t passed the bar, but it’s not quite the same.

****It’ll be cooler if I pass and don’t have to take the exam again in February!



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